We, Around Us!

Have you ever been criticized for the decisions you took and Did you regret for taking them?   Probabilities of being criticized would have a steep slope graph from Yes to always, but the regression of decision would always be varient. In regards with some planned things, the initial decision you took during that particular activity or consider during the purchase a product of your choice, was definitely your choice. You would have thought, planned, evaluated the consequences, way before you decided and finally would have executed or invested on them. Here there was zero chances of dilemma. When there is an intervention of a new person to estimate the result of your decision many a times you get manipulated and subsequently start questioning your own ability to decide. Neither its always good to be advised, nor you must completely agree with the conclusions. Always remember, whatever you are criticizing for, it was indeed your decision. You had wished to do so, so it ...

Everyone has a his unique way of living which he doesn't wants the other person to know or understand to share. He would be happy in his own company and the ingress of others would be treated as aliens who have entered their comfort zone. I had an european colleague, with whom i had lunch many times. While my plate was filled with rice n curry he had a salad or juice. I had offered him Indian food once, he apprehensively declined with a simple 'Thank You'. I never compelled him later as I knew he had his own way of habits which he didn't wish to change even in his diet. Some people do understand the need of space for others. The practice of Non Interventions is also a Yoga. Right from scheduling a meeting or to knocking one's room door, is a sign of good practice to avoid non intervention.  Not sure if to be applied for surprises...

It all started when I saw you closely in the mirror after many days. It was a routine, I see you every day, but that day I observed you as close as I can. You had a lot of change in you. Dark circles rounded your eyes, as you have forgot to sleep from long. Even your face looked dull and there were no signs of smile. Your forehead is now .25cm wider than before and you have put a bit of weight. I wondered why I didn’t notice the changes all these while. Did I start neglecting you in the race of life? I should not have left you without care as I cannot be there without you. I should do something to bring you back to form and make you smile which would make you stress free. I had been caring and encouraging many around even have been listening to others problems as mine, but why didn’t I ask you once, at least, how were you?   I understand the needs of family and I’m supportive to them. Even at work, I see I’m doing pretty well. I didn’t say that, but I was been recognized today...

There would be numerous occasions and for various reasons you would have waited for people in your tough and valuable time. The numero uno motto of your wait would be a positive result. Possibilities varies but our wait matters and one can never justify the loss during the wait.  And for better results you would always be there on the venue well before the schedule, to be sure you are not a reason for delay. A wait is a step for new beginnings and an expectation for betterment. Its an experiment for some change and sometimes answers for your questions. A wait also involves with the time for it. In every action there can be an unspecified reason but always should have a specified time or else there would be no value for our struggles.  The incidents for which would also be interesting and thinking about it would be more mesmerizing. A known person of mine told me he spends an hour each day only to wait for his friend outside his home who had promised to turn up in f...

There are numerous reasons which makes us smile. And sometimes we don't require any reason specifically to smile. It happens as magic. Smile is a natural theory to recharge yourselves. Smile is a solution for many problems. According to Wikipedia, Among humans , smiling is an expression denoting pleasure , sociability , happiness , joy or amusement . It is distinct from a similar but usually involuntary expression of anxiety . And it's a means of communication throughout the world, which can be observed in animals sometimes. It's an exercise to your chin muscles. It's relief for your sorrows.  Smile when you are stressed its a yoga that sets you calm. Accept your defeat with smile, it gives you confidence for the next challenges. Smile in a heated arguments, to ensure nothing is wrong by your side.  Millions of feelings are expressed with a single smile.  You smile when you think about your loved ones and the cutest moment spent with them. There is an inn...

The best lesson is learnt only when you struggle to achieve it. Even if you have everything or you are starting from the scratches, never give up to struggle; because you may either win everything or loss them all but at last you would be left with your potential to struggle and achieve your goal. There are two kind of people around us: One- Who believe in only in our aim but disagree our plan to achieve our dream. Other- who doesn’t care if we achieve our dream or not but only encourage us to strive for it.  Always accept to listen the other people as their encouragement would inspire us to act well. Inspirations are instrumental for any dream. Agreed, even if we cannot achieve as our idol, we struggle to get at least 50% of it. But never fail to get inspired from someone. Even small Ants can be a good inspiration. Postpone your dreams to plan it well. Prioritize your liabilities and achieve them. But act quickly to overcome your liabilities or otherwise your...

Every Diwali we used to turn Engineers while we built the Mud Forts famously known as Shivrayanche Killa when we were Young. We assumed to be building the best with various replications of Shivaji Maharaj's famous fort each year. The planning and the preparations would get started as early as we finish our half yearly exams and get our Diwali vacations. There was much teamwork involved for each activity right from collection of bricks, mud, jute bags and the contribution to buy the mud idols of Maharaj, queens, ministers, soldiers and howitzers. And construction of the fort with ponds, fountains ans greenery around.. We competed with others to built the best as there was price money to be won for the best Killa which were subsequently used for buying extra crackers. Later after Diwali we used to destroy the mud forts by fixing crackers on them. We knew to construct, We also knew to destruct them.  In that age we never knew we we creating beautiful memories. Time really...