We, Around Us!

No human purposely hurts other. Neither you can criticize someone's character without knowing them perfectly. You are definitely irritated when one starts to invade your personal space. They might have not expected anything other than your time and attention.  But will you tolerate the unwanted guests at unwanted situations?  If not, what shall you do if you are in a situation of seeking attention.  Think again. You are purposely not hurting anyone by neglecting them. But u should realize it would have only you who had advised the other person to approach you when they need you. You had given words without a second thought, and now you deny when the time has come.  Do not be different with different person. If you are so, then be the same throughout. We humans may forget and excuse, but when its your time that may ripe again.  No one is so free all the time to help you or knock your door seeking help. On contrary no one is so busy to neglect the pers...

I don’t remember a day, in my life, I missed your presence in the morning. The energy that you show to meet the world, starts my day with a kick. My day turns out well when you are happily out. Unbearably glowing you, I adieu you before I could blink. You are naughty sometimes. Tough in the winters, even you shy when I call you to new places. I forget my comfort matters you a lot, I try, somehow hold my breathe to see you walk out safely. I know you my pal, coffee makes you ease, so I neither take long. You gave my thoughts to spread, each time you delay. Might be it’s the same reason why I chose to write about you today. You are hot, when I spice up. You even cry, when I poisoned up. Apart from all your struggles, you must know, I feel hell and low when you don’t show up your regular shape. I do restrict your siblings when I’m with someone, I ask them to behave so that I do not get embarrassed. But you know, you all have your freedom to spread around in my loneliness, with hi...

Characters are always defined with their identification and repeated representation. A short or bald guy in our close circuit is always referred with his looks  which tends us to forget his real name and when we meet them after long time, we end up calling up with their nick names or the one by which we are used to. This is our nature which has come up with repeated representation of someone, that would be difficult to change.  What is the sin of the man who is short in height and the girl whose hair are brown? I don't like a song, but it didn't mean all disliked it. So wherever it was, whether a FM radio or a saloon it kept playing and unintentionally I had grasped it and after a certain extent I started humming them. Repeated representation. It manipulates our brain to make us believe the one which had never happened nor existed.  Best story tellers would make you a part of their story, before you realise it was a fantasy.  The title didn't have anything ...

Have you ever been criticized for the decisions you took and Did you regret for taking them?   Probabilities of being criticized would have a steep slope graph from Yes to always, but the regression of decision would always be varient. In regards with some planned things, the initial decision you took during that particular activity or consider during the purchase a product of your choice, was definitely your choice. You would have thought, planned, evaluated the consequences, way before you decided and finally would have executed or invested on them. Here there was zero chances of dilemma. When there is an intervention of a new person to estimate the result of your decision many a times you get manipulated and subsequently start questioning your own ability to decide. Neither its always good to be advised, nor you must completely agree with the conclusions. Always remember, whatever you are criticizing for, it was indeed your decision. You had wished to do so, so it ...

Everyone has a his unique way of living which he doesn't wants the other person to know or understand to share. He would be happy in his own company and the ingress of others would be treated as aliens who have entered their comfort zone. I had an european colleague, with whom i had lunch many times. While my plate was filled with rice n curry he had a salad or juice. I had offered him Indian food once, he apprehensively declined with a simple 'Thank You'. I never compelled him later as I knew he had his own way of habits which he didn't wish to change even in his diet. Some people do understand the need of space for others. The practice of Non Interventions is also a Yoga. Right from scheduling a meeting or to knocking one's room door, is a sign of good practice to avoid non intervention.  Not sure if to be applied for surprises...

It all started when I saw you closely in the mirror after many days. It was a routine, I see you every day, but that day I observed you as close as I can. You had a lot of change in you. Dark circles rounded your eyes, as you have forgot to sleep from long. Even your face looked dull and there were no signs of smile. Your forehead is now .25cm wider than before and you have put a bit of weight. I wondered why I didn’t notice the changes all these while. Did I start neglecting you in the race of life? I should not have left you without care as I cannot be there without you. I should do something to bring you back to form and make you smile which would make you stress free. I had been caring and encouraging many around even have been listening to others problems as mine, but why didn’t I ask you once, at least, how were you?   I understand the needs of family and I’m supportive to them. Even at work, I see I’m doing pretty well. I didn’t say that, but I was been recognized today...

There would be numerous occasions and for various reasons you would have waited for people in your tough and valuable time. The numero uno motto of your wait would be a positive result. Possibilities varies but our wait matters and one can never justify the loss during the wait.  And for better results you would always be there on the venue well before the schedule, to be sure you are not a reason for delay. A wait is a step for new beginnings and an expectation for betterment. Its an experiment for some change and sometimes answers for your questions. A wait also involves with the time for it. In every action there can be an unspecified reason but always should have a specified time or else there would be no value for our struggles.  The incidents for which would also be interesting and thinking about it would be more mesmerizing. A known person of mine told me he spends an hour each day only to wait for his friend outside his home who had promised to turn up in f...